Let’s explore our relationships

Today, at least in some places in this world, we have the freedom to choose our partners, and we can decide what we want our relationships with our partners to look like.

Our partners can be of any gender, and we can choose if we want to be in a polyamorous or a monogamous relationship – and what that means to us.

The choices are ours to make, if we become conscious and aware of our options, but what often makes relationships of any kind so complicated is our struggle with self-worth, self-love, expectations, hope, disappointment and communication – and our subconscious expectations, fears and ways we think something is supposed to be – often without even fully being aware of it.

Yet, it doesn’t have to stay that way – even if all that we have experienced and seen was based on that.

In this chapter of the CREATRIX School we will explore our (secret) desires, our subconscious believes, and how they might have been blocking us from what we longed for so far. And we will learn techniques that can help us to make peace with past relationships & experiences, we will work on creating the self-love, confidence & communication skills we need to heal and to finally allow us to have all we wish to have and experience and feel in our relationships.

It’s the new way to live, and it’s now easily available to you as well!

In short: Do you feel like it’s time to finally figure out how to really be yourself in your relationships so that your needs can be met, and you can love freely while living a happy, healthy, balanced and joyful life with the partner(s) of your dreams?

If you are curious to find out how that might be possible for you, then I’d love to invite you to this new chapter in the CREATRIX School.

Learn how to comfortably be yourself with others, explore & communicate your needs and wishes, and create exciting intimacy.

How can we break out of harmful relationship patterns and explore love freely, confidently and joyfully? How can we create the relationships we wish to have? And find our soulmate?

In this chapter of the CREATRIX School (or 4-week course), we will explore our (secret) desires, our subconscious believes, and how to make peace with past relationships & experiences, and we will work on creating the self-love, confidence & communication skills we need to have all we wish to have in our relationships.

And if you like, you can also get a certificate for completing this chapter.

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The Colour for this chapter is: grey

The Colour Grey – Authenticity, Equality, Honour & Respect

Finding a good balance between honour and respect and authenticity is something that many people struggle with.

Questions that arise here, and that the qualities of the colour grey can help us with, are around what’s right or wrong, what’s worth more or less, and how each of us fits into this whole system and can find their place and freely flourish and shine.

We need to honour ourselves and others equally to live in peace with each other – after all, we are all but different expressions of the same divine core – and because of this, grey is the perfect colour to help us create peaceful and safe relationships.

My offer to you:

I’ve always been a careful observer.

I know that liking or even loving yourself can be incredibly difficult, when all you’ve seen, experienced or heard all your life was that you’re not good enough and that if you don’t behave in certain ways to please others, love gets taken away.

While experiencing this and living with that was very painful, I now see the beauty in it, because I found my way out, and I can now share what I’ve learned with you – so you won’t have to do it alone. <3

But I will not be sharing my story here with you, of how I met the love of my life and that we’ve been together happily ever after (though I know something like this is right around the corner).

What I will share with you, however, is how you can break out of harmful relationship patterns, which we create, when we have not grown up with unconditional love, and how you can learn to value yourself so much, that you won’t allow anyone into your life any more who doesn’t value and appreacciate you for who you are.

Because you, and I, can both take it from there.

One of the most common sentences I hear on TV, and from people in real life, when a partner is not kind and loving is: “Well, I’m a complicated person, or not easy to live with, as well.”

This always breaks my heart. Because it strongly suggests that people think that they have to be a certain way to be treated with respect and kindness – and that is absolutely not true!

To be treated kindly, respectfully, like the divine person you are, is the bare minimum in every relationship.

If your partner doesn’t only have the best intentions when interacting with you – then they are not a great partner. And of course, this always goes both ways.

So, what we will do in this chapter of the CREATRIX School, is to start with ourselves.

We will look at how to redefine our boundaries and what behaviours and words we wish for and are OK with – and which ones we won’t tolerate in our lives any more, and start practising this.

That way we can learn to trust ourselves a 100%, as only when we can do that, we can also begin to trust others fully and feel safe and really relax in and enjoy their presence.

And this will require honesty and looking at our shadows, and it means that if we want to be kind, generous, loving and caring with other people, and find other people who match our desires and our kindness, we have to learn to be, to embody, what we wish for in a relationship.

If we are kind to others, and not to ourselves, to receive their kindness in return, our kindness is not based on love or honesty, it’s not given freely and unconditionally, and we need to recognize that we will have to find a way to break out of this circle of dependency if we wish to experience real, free and unconditional love.

Likewise, if we tolerate bad behaviour because we subconsciously think that is all we deserve to have (because it’s all we’ve ever known), and make excuses for other people, who don’t treat us with respect and the greatest love and care, we miss out on actually having kind, gentle, honest, supportive, explorative, adventurous, sensual, exiting love – love that is based on trust, support and generosity.

So, I will show you how to break out of these and other harmful patterns, and, if that is what you wish for – how to manifest the partner or the relationship of your dreams.

How does that sound?

This already worked like a charm for me last year, but it turned out I wasn’t ready yet to handle a new relationship and a new business in a way that was satisfying for me, and so I decided to focus on my business, before I would open up to a new relationship again.

But as I’m getting more and more ready with my business, I’m actually quite excited to see how this chapter is going to go and where this going to take me this year as well.

And, as you might know by now, I don’t create these courses alone, or based on my knowledge alone.

I get to channel a lot of the information, and it often feels more like I am guided through the process by my guides and the greater consciousness, so we can all be sure that all the most relevant information will be received.

And for this chapter I got a lot of extra guidance because I really needed it. So this chapter turned out extra-special and helpful and useful as well.

If you’re interested in my formal qualifications, then you can find them on the about page.

I’ve entered on my journey to become who I am now because I just wanted to be a little bit healthier and happier.

And so I began to look for ways to be that, which quickly turned into a couple of years of research and training.

I have an M.A. in cultural anthropology and political sciences, so how people work in this world has always been my main point of interest.

But what I found out in the last couple of years of research, and what I didn’t learn at University, is, that with just a few specific changes in the way we think and act, everything in our lives can change for the better – and this is true for anyone who is willing to be honest with themselves and who is not afraid of change.

We can all live abundant, happy and healthy lives – all we have to do this is to find out how and then practice it.

And we can also open up to love and healthy relationships – by beginning to create a healthy relationship with ourselves, tuning in to our desires and inner knowing, becoming more confident and loving and, most importantly, by allowing ourselves to receive.

So if you are looking to meet the love of your life, or just the love for the next while or if you’d like to mend a relationship that doesn’t make you completely happy (yet) – (and I can literally see your soul dancing and saying yes!) then I’d be happy to guide you through this process of self-actualizing, becoming your best self, or your qu_ing self and begin to live the life, you know you are meant to live and open up to love fully and freely.

And I can’t wait to welcome you to the CREATRIX School and to grow our wonderful community of people who dare to be generous, happy and free!

The CREATRIX School is designed to help you find clarity, confidence and connection in all areas of your life – so you can, actually, start creating the life of your dreams.

A new chapter starts with every new moon, and there are thirteen chapters altogether. You can get a certificate for each chapter you complete, and you can see the order of the chapters here.

There are different options for you to join to make the CREATRIX School available for any budget.

If you join the CREATRIX School for a year, you get access to all 13 chapters (Thirteen 4-week courses), including this one once they are released.