RELATIONSHIPS – Week 4 – Pt. 2

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How to Energize Your Relationships

Dear Creatrix,

In our first lesson, I asked you where you are at, when it comes to relationships right now.

Maybe you are single and don’t want to be, maybe you are in a relationship and don’t want to be in that relationship any more, maybe you are completely content and happy with what you have.

What is true for you?

And has your perspective changed over the last four weeks?

What were the wishes you wrote down for this month? Has any of it come true?

Do you feel closer to seeing your wishes come true? I’d love to hear from you in the comments or in our Facebook Group.

The topic for this chapter in the CREATRIX School is Energize!/ Relationships, and I’d like to look at the energize part a bit today.

How do we energize a relationship?

How do we energize a relationship that doesn’t yet exist so much, that it comes into existence?

By thinking about it, by imaging it, by believing it could be real.

I have to say that, whenever I do this, there’s not only resistance that comes up, but also a lot of sadness.

We’ve talked about how to release stuck emotions this month, and of course, we don’t just want to release stuck emotions from the past, we also don’t want to start piling on new ones.

So I’ve been letting the sadness pass through me (which has been exhausting and sad, but not as exhausting as it would have been to fight it, I guess), and in this process I could beautifully see what I’ve occasionally experienced before, but never seen so clearly:

It’s also hard to say goodbye to an old part of ourselves, even if we don’t need or want it any more.

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