Learn how to overcome loneliness and make meaningful, kind, supportive and inspiring connections

To overcome loneliness, we first have to meet ourselves.

And to do that, we will explore our inherent goodness, in this chapter of the CREATRIX School (or 4-week course), and bring in a lot of love and patience, overcome some fears and begin to safely open ourselves to the right people in new ways.

Individual courses are €35 each. Membership options providing you with access to all 13 courses/chapters start at €15/month.

Let’s create meaningful friendships

Do you remember a time when you felt seen and heard and held by your friends?

Or did you never really experience that?

And if not, do you know why?

I often hear people say that it was so easy to make friends in school, or in college, but as an adult, it becomes so much harder.

I remember that when I moved to Berlin almost 15 years ago, everybody said it’s impossible to make new friends there because everyone is so busy with themselves.

But that was never true for me.

Because the thing is, it’s never about the other people, or the place, it’s always about us and our willingness and ability to show our true and real and authentic selves – if we want to make meaningful connections and form meaningful friendships.

So, no matter what your experience has been so far, in this chapter, we will explore how to create meaningful friendships that last in the CREATRIX School.

And to be able to do that, we start by meeting ourselves and our needs when it comes to connections – because we all connect in different ways.

We will also find out how we can become great friends, how archetypes can help us to discover different friendship qualities, and we will start to create CREATRIX Crews, a group of people that can support us in our lives.

It’s the new way to live, and this is your chance to experience it!

In short: Do you feel like we can begin to use friendship as an antidote to the problems we see in the world today?

I believe we can, and fortunately, I’m not the only one.

In a world of division, unresolved issues, misunderstandings, cancelling and calling each other out instead of inviting each other in – each of us has the possibility to choose a different path and can form friendships to support us on our life’s journey and in our growth.

Together with people we love and trust, that we welcome into our lives, we can create the world we want to live in.

And this is what we will do in theory and practice in this chapter of the CREATRIX School.

Full access to all lessons is available for members of the CREATRIX School.

We will start this chapter as a group with the New Moon on January 29th, 2025. But as a member, you can also take it anytime you like.

Or, as a non-member, you can also buy the course individually once it’s available.

We always go with the energies of the moon and the seasons of the year in the CREATRIX School for the best results, so I highly recommend joining as a member – especially as you surely would like to have clarity, confidence and connection in all areas of your life – to thrive in and enjoy your entire life and not just some of it – and there is nowhere else where you can find a course like this – but here.

And if you like, you can also get a certificate for completing this chapter.

Extras

The Colour for this chapter is: orange

The Colour Orange – Learning, Experiencing & Teaching

Whenever we choose to live and learn, we thrive in life. Whenever we see an obstacle and choose to overcome it, we open up to new possibilities for ourselves. It’s a bit like climbing up a mountain: the more we learn and experience, the more we raise our consciousness, and the more we can see and understand how things are connected and what the bigger picture looks like.

Orange helps us to keep climbing and experiencing and learning from our experiences, as we begin to fully understand that expansion is our destiny.

And orange is the perfect colour to accompany us in this chapter, as there is no one better to help us learn about ourselves and the world than our friends.

If anyone can learn this, why don’t they?

If we use our powers for the highest good of all, our efforts are always recognized and supported.

And what’s even better – if we initiate a positive change once, and see and experience with our own bodies, how much, what we think, and say, really matters, and how much more is possible for us, as soon as we start to see things differently – we automatically grow our confidence and realize how much power we really do have, with every new change we create in our lives.

And so, the CREATRIX School invites you, to find out for yourself, that you have the power to change anything you don’t like about your life right now, to something that makes your heart and your soul sing, by giving you the right exercises and guiding you through the process of self-actualization – the process of becoming your true and authentic, magnificent and most joyful, loving, creative and abundant self.

Just ask yourself: Are ready to find out, what else could be possible for you?

Do you feel like it’s time to allow yourself to release what doesn’t serve you any more, explore your hidden and possibly still untapped superpowers, and begin to use them for the highest good of all? Then this is for you.

What I offer here is revolutionary, yet it’s also very practical and down to earth.

And you might or might not be able to figure all of this out by yourself, over the course of your life, but if join the CREATRIX School now, you’ll have the best guidance – from someone who went through all of this herself – and with this support, you will be able to discover your true self in a much shorter time – and you will start to see the benefits of this in your life right away.

I’d love to accompany you through the process of your self-actualization, and I promise you that I’ve made this journey as fun, exciting, surprising and easily successful for you, as possible.

I wrote a lot of what you find in the CREATRIX School while I was going through these changes myself – so you’ll have my first-hand experience – my often catastrophic before, my messy in the middle and my happily ever after – to relate to and to guide you through.

From my experience, I know that to create the changes, we wish for, in our lives, we have to begin by being really honest with ourselves, and allow ourselves to dream big, often bigger than those around us, trust the process and allow ourselves to follow our soul’s calling.

And only as a next step, we can begin to take full responsibility for all our thoughts, words and actions and start to accept where we are now, and then begin to learn how to be really kind and loving to ourselves, so we can change with joy and care.

This way, we allow for the changes to stick, naturally, because they feel good, and so our new habits and ways can support our lives holistically and constantly.

And on top of all the positive change this will create in our lives, this won’t just change our lives for the better, it will also have a positive impact on the lives of all the people and future and past generations our lives have touched, and will touch.

Once we begin to accept ourselves for who we are (wonderful, perfect and special beings with immense power), we can relax, arrive and feel safe.

And when we feel safe enough to be, and know enough, remember enough about our true selves, we can begin to reinvent ourselves, and live as how we truly are, deep down, and not as the version we created to fit in, or please others, or to be safe, or loved, or successful – because that version has never really made us happy, has it?

Then, once we feel safe and confident enough to do so, we can begin to genuinely explore our own and unique ways to be human, to be weird, nerdy, special, grandiose, explorative and incredibly loveable in our perfect imperfection and re-learn, or remember, how to express ourselves, how to laugh, to love, to learn, to open up and to enjoy trying something and failing at it, as much as we enjoy mastering it – in our unique ways and areas of interest.

From here, we can also begin to see how everything in life happens for us, not to us. And that every experience, everything we try and fail at, helps us to learn and grow and be better next time.

Because, as humans, that’s what we are here on earth for: To grow and to learn, and to show and share our unique gifts and beauty, to share the gifts and perspectives we’ve been given, that make us special and unique, so we can contribute to the whole in our own unique ways and for the highest good for all.

We’re not here to make due, to please others or to follow conventions, to fit in, to struggle each and every day, to worry and fear. We’re here to love, learn, explore and expand.

If we begin to recognize our purpose, which is to love and explore, and see our journey through life as a self-actualization journey, which will eventually lead us to becoming our highest, truest, most relaxed, most generous and loving and abundant qu_ing selves, we will see that being on this journey also allows us to open up to and experience joy and love and abundance in our lives a bit more each day.

This allows us to break out of and away from the pressure, and start to be so rooted, grounded, centred in ourselves that we can begin to actually attract and allow for what we wish for.

Anyone can do this, really, and it can even be a lot of fun.

But it may also take some courage, to face your shadows and begin to transform them into light, I’m not going to lie about that. Yet again, the more we do it, the easier it becomes.

And insecurities and questions will come up, and so to do this confidently and continuously until we reach true inner peace might take some practice and encouragement, which can be difficult to bring up on your own.

The reason why most people don’t live as their highest and best selves yet, is that they don’t know how to get there.

They simply don’t know where to begin or what to do exactly, they don’t have the role models who can show them the way, or they don’t have the money to work with a personal coach or teacher on these topics individually. Which is precisely why I founded the CREATRIX School.

With the CREATRIX School, I can guide you through every step you need to take to get to where you want to go and bring clarity, confidence, joy, relaxation, abundance, playfulness and whatever else you wish for into every area of your life – for the price of three take out coffees a month, and without having to hire someone to work with you one-on-one.

Yet, with the same success.

As every good coach or spiritual teacher will tell you, we are here to ask you the right questions, the answers you will always have to find for yourself – because only then will you truly know.

And you do already have all the answers within – they are right there waiting for you to hear them.

You simply haven’t taken the time, or had the right guide, or the confidence, or the role models to know exactly how to ask those questions yet in a way that worked for you, or knew how to listen to your answers and then to actually start living according to your inner truth.

But this can all change right now.

And you still won’t be going through this on your own, as if you join the CREATRIX School, you will also be joining a growing community of people, who want to start creating and shaping their lives actively, who are taking their power back, who are beginning to enjoy life deeply, and who are thriving in their unique ways, using their unique talents, gifts and insights – and with this experience, we can all begin to create more and more communities, offers, programmes and turn this world into a world, in which we are all here to support one another.

Is this the right course for you?

If you wish, we can change these voices and limitations together and forever.

This is the process of manifestation, of creating, of becoming a true CREATIRX – and the more we practise, the easier it becomes.

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You have everything it takes to live the life your soul desires, a life that makes you happy and fulfils you – you have the right to be abundant, loved, adored and free – and it only depends on your choices whether you will actually have that or not.

Real freedom, confidence & success are possible – for anyone who dares to look within, to discover themselves and who consciously begins to create their lives – according to their unique needs and using their unique gifts and talents.

And all you have to do is sign up to get started.

Isn’t it selfish to focus on myself?

Especially when there are other people out there who are struggling much more?

It’s why I will always encourage you to share everything you learn in the CREATRIX School with other people.

By embodying the changes we wish to see, and sharing what we already have and know, and give and recieve freely what we wish to have more of, it can all multiply indefinitely.

The reason why we have wars, exploitation, hate, fear, devastation, sickness, is because the people involved in these actions, don’t know how to solve things peacefully – they’ve not yet understood that they are fighting themselves.

Which option do you think will bring the best results for you and all those whose lives you touch?

No one will stop you, from becoming your true and best self, but you.

Is that something that you’d like?

Is now the best time to start?

To dare to change something that has been a certain way for a big part of our lives might seem scary or challenging.

Then, yes, this is the very best time.

Am I the right guide for you?

With your best friends, time is not significant.

Like Timi, I used to have quite a few very reliable and great friends, and our friendships have lasted over decades, and even if we didn’t see each other all the time, when we got together it always felt like coming home.

But a lot of that has changed since my spiritual awakening, and even before that, I’ve spent a lot of time feeling lonely and like I’m not seen or heard. I didn’t always know how to show my authentic self because I didn’t feel safe to share things that mattered to me, because I had often experienced that people would laugh about me or just get freaked out, when I told them about my psychic abilities and supernatural experiences.

In my lifetime I had to overcome insecurities, confusion, phases of depression and anxiety and a pretty pessimistic world view, to get to a place where I am today and where I can confidently and lovingly show my authentic self – and I wouldn’t want it any other way.

Before, people would have described me as a very well-liked and respected person. In school, I was always elected to be part of the school government because people trusted me. Later, I organized events and always had a big circle of friends around me – yet, I never fully felt like I belonged, because I never fully accepted and loved myself.

So, over the last few years, I distanced myself from my old life and friends, and thought a lot about what really mattered to me, so that now, I can form new and conscious friendships, in which I can fully be my real galactic and limitless self.

And what I realized on the way, is that everything is possible, as long as we believe it is. And instead of wishing for other people to change with me, I can attract the people, I’d now actually love to hang out with and who would love to hang out with me – but to make that happen, I had to start by bringing in more self-love and compassion, and this might be true for you as well.

If we want to have great friendships, we have to understand how we can become a great a friend – and really enjoy the time we spend with our (new) friends.

And the tools that have helped me to get there are what I’ll be sharing with you in this course.

Because, let’s be honest, life is so much more fun, when we can share it with people, who accept us for who we are and who love us unconditionally and when we can do the same.

So, would you like to become a great friend, to yourself and others?

Then I’d be more than happy to guide you towards creating your most meaningful friendships – yet, so you can start or continue thriving in the company of those who support you.

When I started my self-actualization journey, to be honest, I just wanted to be a little bit healthier and happier – I didn’t even think there was anything wrong with the friendships I had, because they were all I ever knew. But the more I learned and understood, the more I actually longed for real connection, and for being able to share and feel safe when sharing all that I am.

I’m super happy to be in a position now from which I can share all that I have learned on my own journey with you, so you too will soon know and possibly also share with others what it takes to live a happy and successful, confident, generous and loving life.

My once seemingly simple attempt to find out how to become happier and healthier, quickly turned into a couple of years of research and training – because that’s the person that I am – I’m a Scorpio and I like going deep.

I have an M.A. in cultural anthropology and political sciences, so how people work in this world has always been my main point of interest.

If you’re interested in my formal qualifications, you can find them on the about page.

As a Cultural Anthropologist, I got to learn that the way we see things really depends so much on the cultural context in which we were raised and that everything really only has the meaning we give to it.

I believe that we’re actually super lucky to live in a time and place where we can choose how we want to live and can learn from each other, instead of having to stick to the limitations previous generations have set for themselves.

But I did not only learn about his from books, I also lived in different places and continents myself, so I got to experience the beauty and variety of different customs and points of view first hand.

On top of my own experience and what I’ve seen and learned in my past, what I found out in the last couple of years of research, from the latest scientific discoveries, which also matches ancient wisdom, is, that with just a few specific changes in the way we think and act, everything in our lives can change for the better – and this is true for anyone who is willing to be honest with themselves and who is not afraid of change.

We can really all live abundant, happy and healthy lives – all we have to do is to learn how and then to practice it – and the how is waiting right here for you in the CREATRIX School.