Let’s create meaningful friendships

Do you remember a time when you felt seen and heard and held by your friends?

Or did you never really experience that?

And if not, do you know why?

I often hear people say that it was so easy to make friends in school, or in college, but as an adult, it becomes so much harder.

I remember that when I moved to Berlin almost 15 years ago, everybody said it’s impossible to make new friends there because everyone is so busy with themselves.

But that was never true for me.

Because the thing is, it’s never about the other people, or the place, it’s always about us and our willingness and ability to show our true and real and authentic selves – if we want to make meaningful connections and form meaningful friendships.

So, no matter what your experience has been so far, in this chapter, we will explore how to create meaningful friendships that last in the CREATRIX School.

And to be able to do that, we start by meeting ourselves and our needs when it comes to connections – because we all connect in different ways.

We will also find out how we can become great friends, how archetypes can help us to discover different friendship qualities, and we will start to create CREATRIX Crews, a group of people that can support us in our lives.

It’s the new way to live, and this is your chance to experience it!

In short: Do you feel like we can begin to use friendship as an antidote to the problems we see in the world today?

I believe we can, and fortunately, I’m not the only one.

In a world of division, unresolved issues, misunderstandings, cancelling and calling each other out instead of inviting each other in – each of us has the possibility to choose a different path and can form friendships to support us on our life’s journey and in our growth.

Together with people we love and trust, that we welcome into our lives, we can create the world we want to live in.

And this is what we will do in theory and practice in this chapter of the CREATRIX School.

Learn how to overcome loneliness and make meaningful, kind, supportive and inspiring connections

To overcome loneliness, we first have to meet ourselves.

And to do that, we will explore our inherent goodness, in this chapter of the CREATRIX School (or 4-week course), and bring in a lot of love and patience, overcome some fears and begin to safely open ourselves to the right people in new ways.

And if you like, you can also get a certificate for completing this chapter.

Extras

The Colour for this chapter is: orange

The Colour Orange – Learning, Experiencing & Teaching

Whenever we choose to live and learn, we thrive in life. Whenever we see an obstacle and choose to overcome it, we open up to new possibilities for ourselves. It’s a bit like climbing up a mountain: the more we learn and experience, the more we raise our consciousness, and the more we can see and understand how things are connected and what the bigger picture looks like.

Orange helps us to keep climbing and experiencing and learning from our experiences, as we begin to fully understand that expansion is our destiny.

And orange is the perfect colour to accompany us in this chapter, as there is no one better to help us learn about ourselves and the world than our friends.

My offer to you:

With your best friends, time is not significant.

Like Timi, I used to have quite a few very reliable and great friends, and our friendships have lasted over decades, and even if we didn’t see each other all the time, when we got together it always felt like coming home.

But a lot of that has changed since my spiritual awakening, and even before that, I’ve spent a lot of time feeling lonely and like I’m not seen or heard. I didn’t always know how to show my authentic self because I didn’t feel safe to share things that mattered to me, because I had often experienced that people would laugh about me or just get freaked out, when I told them about my psychic abilities and supernatural experiences.

In my lifetime I had to overcome insecurities, confusion, phases of depression and anxiety and a pretty pessimistic world view, to get to a place where I am today and where I can confidently and lovingly show my authentic self – and I wouldn’t want it any other way.

Before, people would have described me as a very well-liked and respected person. In school, I was always elected to be part of the school government because people trusted me. Later, I organized events and always had a big circle of friends around me – yet, I never fully felt like I belonged, because I never fully accepted and loved myself.

So, over the last few years, I distanced myself from my old life and friends, and thought a lot about what really mattered to me, so that now, I can form new and conscious friendships, in which I can fully be my real galactic and limitless self.

And what I realized on the way, is that everything is possible, as long as we believe it is. And instead of wishing for other people to change with me, I can attract the people, I’d now actually love to hang out with and who would love to hang out with me – but to make that happen, I had to start by bringing in more self-love and compassion, and this might be true for you as well.

If we want to have great friendships, we have to understand how we can become a great a friend – and really enjoy the time we spend with our (new) friends.

And the tools that have helped me to get there are what I’ll be sharing with you in this course.

Because, let’s be honest, life is so much more fun, when we can share it with people, who accept us for who we are and who love us unconditionally and when we can do the same.

So, would you like to become a great friend, to yourself and others?

Then I’d be more than happy to guide you towards creating your most meaningful friendships – yet, so you can start or continue thriving in the company of those who support you.

When I started my self-actualization journey, to be honest, I just wanted to be a little bit healthier and happier – I didn’t even think there was anything wrong with the friendships I had, because they were all I ever knew. But the more I learned and understood, the more I actually longed for real connection, and for being able to share and feel safe when sharing all that I am.

I’m super happy to be in a position now from which I can share all that I have learned on my own journey with you, so you too will soon know and possibly also share with others what it takes to live a happy and successful, confident, generous and loving life.

My once seemingly simple attempt to find out how to become happier and healthier, quickly turned into a couple of years of research and training – because that’s the person that I am – I’m a Scorpio and I like going deep.

I have an M.A. in cultural anthropology and political sciences, so how people work in this world has always been my main point of interest.

If you’re interested in my formal qualifications, you can find them on the about page.

As a Cultural Anthropologist, I got to learn that the way we see things really depends so much on the cultural context in which we were raised and that everything really only has the meaning we give to it.

I believe that we’re actually super lucky to live in a time and place where we can choose how we want to live and can learn from each other, instead of having to stick to the limitations previous generations have set for themselves.

But I did not only learn about his from books, I also lived in different places and continents myself, so I got to experience the beauty and variety of different customs and points of view first hand.

On top of my own experience and what I’ve seen and learned in my past, what I found out in the last couple of years of research, from the latest scientific discoveries, which also matches ancient wisdom, is, that with just a few specific changes in the way we think and act, everything in our lives can change for the better – and this is true for anyone who is willing to be honest with themselves and who is not afraid of change.

We can really all live abundant, happy and healthy lives – all we have to do is to learn how and then to practice it – and the how is waiting right here for you in the CREATRIX School.

The CREATRIX School is designed to help you find clarity, confidence and connection in all areas of your life – so you can, actually, start creating the life of your dreams.

A new chapter starts with every new moon, and there are thirteen chapters altogether. You can get a certificate for each chapter you complete, and you can see the order of the chapters here.

There are different options for you to join to make the CREATRIX School available for any budget.

If you join the CREATRIX School for a year, you get access to all 13 chapters (Thirteen 4-week courses), including this one once they are released.