Do you sometimes wonder why your family situation is so complicated?

The good thing is, that no matter what your situation is now, you have the power to change it for the better. And I’d be happy to show you how.

What causes most of our human suffering is feeling disempowered.

When we feel disempowered, we ask ourselves: Why am I here? Why is this happening to me? Why is this so complicated? Without really knowing the answer.

Can you relate to that? Do you feel like you are the victims of your circumstances and like you don’t have the power to change your situation? Do you think that there are too many people involved? Or that things have always been a certain way, so why should you be able to change them now?

It’s easy to think that the things, which have been happening to you, the family dynamics which have already been in place before you were born, are beyond your control, and that all that you can do it accept, cope and react.

But that is not true. The second you take full responsibility for the situation you are in, you can also begin to change it.

The second you realize that you are the one creating your reality, by thinking about a situation in a certain way, you can begin to change how you think, talk and act, and you will immediately start to see how the things around begin to change as well.

This is true for the family situation you find yourself in, as well as any other situation.

Now the only question that remains is this:

“Would you like to learn more about how you can change your perspective when it comes to your family situation, so that your circumstances may change as well?”

Then you’ve come to the right place. The CREATRIX School teaches you a new way to live, one where you feel fully empowered – and this chapter is your opportunity to learn how to create a family life you can truly enjoy!

In short: Would you like to start creating your ideal family life?

Then you are invited to the CREATRIX School – to learn all it takes to make peace with your current family situation and start creating the family for yourself that you always wished for.

In this chapter of the CREATRIX School, you will work with the Inner Child Archetype Oracle Cards, to find out about the roles you took on in your life so far, explore what you’ve learned from them and begin to see how even your most difficult lessons were tailored especially for you to provide you with the growth your soul needed.

From here, you will go even further and see what happens if you were to consider that it was actually your active choice (on a soul level) to be born into exactly the situation you were born into, before you came to this earth.

Most of the time, we struggle with a situation, because we don’t think we should be in it, or that we cannot get ourselves out of it – because we feel disempowered.

So if you change your perspective and consider that you did actually actively choose the situation you are in, then you can begin to see why you might have done that and what you can GAIN from the situation you are in.

From here, you can begin to recognize that you faced the obstacles you did, because they allowed you to acquire something you did not have before.

Once you accept that, and learn to actually be grateful for that, you can begin to alchemize these experiences into something good, resolve what has been bothering you and begin to make peace with the people in your life and create the family you actually wish for – actively, not by hoping that one day things might just magically change, or by pushing people and demanding them to be different, but by stepping into your true and full power.

By facing what you have and changing what you can, bit by bit, step by step, your life will begin to change for the better – and it will allow you to actually live with what you wish for and change the fate of past and future generations – and it will allow you, to really enjoy your life, and the time you have with your family.

Learn how to make peace with any Family situation and create the family you always wished for

We find ourselves in an incredible moment in time, one where we can break with generational trauma and negative patterns, which have been limiting us & humanity, for centuries.

In this chapter of the CREATRIX School (or 4-week course) we will explore how we can transform our family relationships and create new possibilities for ourselves and future generations.

And if you like, you can also get a certificate for completing this chapter.

Extras

The Colour for this chapter is: yellow

The Colour Yellow – Warmth, Authentic Connection & Support

The colour yellow is the classical second colour in the Wheel of Colours because when we believe in ourselves (first colour, red), we can make even more possible, once we start to collaborate with other people and give and receive support, unconditional love, and have each other’s backs – which is what the colour yellow stands for.

And there’s no better place to practice this, than with our families.

It also helps us to understand how we can use our feelings and emotions to help us guide ourselves back to our true and loving essence.

My offer to you:

Family can mean doing things together.

I wondered if it was too late for me, or maybe if I just wasn’t meant to be happy in this lifetime.

But the stronger my relationship to my inner knowing became, the more I began to realize that that wasn’t true.

What I learned, though, was, that I could either continue to complain about what is, or roll up my sleeves and start to make some changes in the way I see things so that I could begin to invite more of what I wanted into my life.

When it comes to creating the family of my dreams, I haven’t reached my goals yet, because some change takes time, but I am so much closer than I’ve ever been, and my relationship to my biological family is better than I ever thought possible.

And I wouldn’t have believed what became possible for me, if I hadn’t lived through those changes myself.

I’d love for you to be able to experience the same.

Because what is possible for me and others is also possible for you.

No matter what you, personally, desire, what your situation is now and what the changes are, that you want to see, you can and will make it happen, and I’m here to show you how.

For me, as a queer woman, creating a family might still be harder in some ways, than for straight people, yet, I also believe that not having been able to take things for granted, and not having what is normal or natural to others, gave me the ability to really question what I wanted and what mattered to me – so I won a lot of clarity.

The decision to have children, or not to have children, is one we all have to make, it’s just less likely that I get pregnant accidentally if I don’t have sex with men.

But we can all decide if we want to be a mother, father, a dada or a grandparent.

And then what inhabiting these roles actually means for us.

We also all get to decide how much time we would like to spend with or how close we wish to be to our biological or chosen family.

What activities do we want to do with our families?

And which ones do we want to do with our core families and which ones with our extended families?

How can we call in the right people to create family and community in a way in which we dare to show our authentic selves, and therefore create a space for us that allows us to feel like we belong?

I, personally, have family in Ukraine (though many of them moved to Hungary when the war started), who adopted me when I moved there, and called me into their families by making me a godparent to their children or simply by calling me a sister, daughter, sibling.

I also have my biological family in Hamburg, Germany, who I barely saw or was in contact with for more than twenty years and with which I’m reconnecting now.

I have community and friends who are also family in different places of this world.

And then I have my dog, my home and hope to, when the time is right, start a family of my own.

And I’m super happy to be in a position, now, to share all that I have learned on my own journey with you, so you too will soon know what it takes to live a happy and successful, confident, generous and loving life by joining the CREATRIX School for a while.

To be honest, I’ve entered on my journey to become who I am now because I just wanted to be a little bit healthier and happier.

And so I began to look for ways to be that, which quickly turned into a couple of years of research and training – because that’s the person that I am.

I’m a Scorpio and I like going deep.

I have an M.A. in Cultural Anthropology and Political Sciences, so how people work in this world has always been my main point of interest.

And as an anthropologist, I got to learn that family doesn’t just mean one thing, it can mean very many different things to different people in different parts of the world and that we’re actually very lucky to live in a time and place where we can choose how we want to live and can change traditions that have been limiting and oppressive to previous generations.

On top of my own experience and what I’ve seen and learned in my past, what I found out in the last couple of years of research, from the latest scientific discoveries, which mostly match ancient wisdom, is, that with just a few specific changes in the way we think and act, everything in our lives can change for the better – and this is true for anyone who is willing to be honest with themselves and who is not afraid of change.

We can really all live abundant, happy and healthy lives – all we have to do is to learn how and then to practice it – and the how is waiting right here for you in the CREATRIX School.

The CREATRIX School is designed to help you find clarity, confidence and connection in all areas of your life – so you can, actually, start creating the life of your dreams.

A new chapter starts with every new moon, and there are thirteen chapters altogether. You can get a certificate for each chapter you complete, and you can see the order of the chapters here.

There are different options for you to join to make the CREATRIX School available for any budget.

If you join the CREATRIX School for a year, you get access to all 13 chapters (Thirteen 4-week courses), including this one once they are released.