CREATRIX School – 04 – Reach Out! // COMMUNITY

Let’s create the world we want to live in – together!

What comes to mind when you hear the word community?

Do you feel like you are part of a community? Do you find belonging in community (yet)?

And if you’ve been involved in one or more community settings, what were the problems you faced?

What worked and didn’t work?

If you, like me, believe that it takes strong communities to create the changes we seek in this world, then let’s have a look, together, at how each of us can best contribute to building strong communities.

Because this life is up to us and what we make of it.

As somebody who has been involved in all kinds of communities all her life, I’ve seen a lot of what has worked and a lot that didn’t work, when it comes to building stronger communities.

From my experiences, it might be easy to conclude that there is no simple answer to the question of how we can start building stronger communities or uniting many individuals to work towards a common goal – as bringing different people, from different backgrounds together, to work together, in an unhealed world, is a difficult task.

But I will not let difficulties discourage me, and I have a feeling neither do you – and what’s even better, I found out that when we recognize a few things, it doesn’t actually have to be so hard.

Because when we begin to look at it from a higher perspective, a very simple answer becomes apparent, which only needs two components to work:

Any community or project, family or relationship will work smoothly if each part, each individual, is doing their inner work and is taking full responsibility for their life and their actions.

I’ve opened the CREATRIX School exactly for this reason – so we can all learn how to become free, happy, growing, thriving and flourishing human beings – who create their worlds and take full responsibility for their thoughts, words and actions.

Because when we fully get to know ourselves, and begin to be kind and loving to ourselves, we can also begin to safely, kindly, compassionately interact with others and then, together, each of us can begin to live their lives in service for the highest good of all – fully knowing that what’s best for all is also what’s really best for ourselves.

With a few simple transitions, this really could be everyone’s reality.

And you can learn all of these transitions in the CREATRIX School, while meeting your true self and other like-minded people, and once you do, see your life and your world begin to change, through the changes you’ve created within.

For this, it does not matter what other people are doing, or if they agree – until this is everyone’s reality, until everybody is taking full responsibility for their lives, we start by taking full responsibility for our own lives, and begin to thrive and flourish in our own lives because this is what will create the necessary ripple effects to inspire others as well.

And then we can ask ourselves what it is that we are looking for in terms of community – and start creating that.

Because the more we create of what we love, the more we can enjoy that as well.

It’s the new way to live, and it’s available to all!

Do you sometimes wonder if you could increase your impact?

Is it time to build the community you wish to have?

Do you want to learn how to reach and unite more people?

In short: Do you feel like it’s time to start really diving into your sense of responsibility so you can start leading with confidence and help direct our world in a way that helps us all to prosper and evolve?

Do you believe a small group of people can create meaningful change and, with that, eventually change the world?

The intention to create meaningful change, to come together with open hearts, and the readiness to listen, learn and grow, is the base for any form of community, and what can help us in building stronger communities, besides what I mentioned above.

In this chapter of the CREATRIX School we will look at how we can each find or create the right community for us, we will look at our personal strengths and the gifts we came to share with others (with some help from the Wheel of Colours) and we will see how we can form temporary alliances for a cause.

We will also look at how we can put our egos aside, what we can learn from being triggered, how we can collaborate with other people for a common cause, and why it is so important to look at the change we want to create (our goals) instead of what we wish to overcome.

If you are curious to find out how to make an impactful, confident and conscious life your new reality, then I’d love to welcome you to this new chapter in the CREATRIX School.

Course Content

Learn how we can begin to build stronger communities & start creating the world we want to live in

In this chapter of the CREATRIX School (or 4-week course) we learn how we can build strong communities, what our unique roles can be in these strong communities, what our gifts are that we came to share with others and how we can best combine our powers and energies to create the changes we want to see in our world (and not get triggered or distracted by personal issues).

Basically, this course can show you all you need to know to lead groups, clubs, communities, organisations or teams successfully, and wisely, for the highest good of all.

Individual courses are €35 each. Membership options providing you with access to all 13 courses/chapters start at €15/month.

Full access to all lessons is available for members of the CREATRIX School.

We started this chapter as a group with the New Moon on August 5th, 2024 and will do so again with the New Moon on July 24th, 2025. But as a member, you can also take it any time you like.

Or, as a non-member, you can also buy the course individually.

We always go with the energies of the moon and the seasons of the year in the CREATRIX School for the best results, so I highly recommend joining as a member – especially as you surely would like to have clarity, confidence and connection in all areas of your life – to thrive in and enjoy your entire life and not just some of it – and there is nowhere else where you can find a course like this – but here.

And if you like, you can also get a certificate for completing this chapter.

All Lessons

Community – Week 1 – Pt. 1

Community – Week 1 – Pt. 1

Welcome to a New Chapter in the CREATRIX School

Starting today, and for the next four weeks, we will think about how we can be at our best with others and how we can use our unique abilities, gifts and talents to contribute to the greater good of all.

As the first week of each chapter in the CREATRIX School is all about assessing where we are, so we can let go of what doesn’t serve us any more, and invite more of what we do want, we start this chapter by looking at our hopes for the future of our world as well as the experiences we’ve made in community so far.

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Community – Week 1 – Pt. 2

Community – Week 1 – Pt. 2

What do we mean when we say communities, and why do we need them?

There are different ways for communities to be organized. Sometimes, all people are equal and come together to organize things as equals.

Sometimes, there’s an initiator, or someone who finances the project and other people who organize and implement it.

Sometimes, there are some people who are paid and other people who volunteer.

What are the different kinds of projects or communities you have been involved in, or would like to get involved in, in your life?

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Community – Week 1 – Pt. 3

Community – Week 1 – Pt. 3

How do you envision our future?

It’s easy to think there are so many problems in this world – what am I supposed to do about it – I can’t do anything but make the best of it – and that’s true to some extent – but also not entirely.

Because we’re not just here to get by. We’re not just here to arrange ourselves with what is already here – we are life and a part of the great symphony of life that’s playing right now, in this moment, and we get to contribute to it.

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Community – Week 2 – Pt. 1

Community – Week 2 – Pt. 1

How to learn to love triggers

In this lesson, we look at why it is so important to unite for a cause and not against someone or something – if we want to create lasting change – no matter how much we might disagree with them or something.

And we look at how love really is always the answer, even, or especially, when someone or something upsets us.

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Community – Week 2 – Pt. 2

Community – Week 2 – Pt. 2

How can we create a real alternative to what we currently have?

In this lesson, we talk about how judgement can be a very useful tool on our journey to becoming our most authentic and best selves and create the communities we wish for, as long as we don’t use it to condemn other people or to establish superiority.

We also think about how every trigger is really here for us to grow, and not something to be afraid of or to avoid and how punishment, just like suppression, doesn’t lead to anything beautiful – and what we can do instead.

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Community – Week 2 – Pt. 3

Community – Week 2 – Pt. 3

On Freedom, Responsibility and our Nature

In this lesson, we look at how freedom and responsibility are linked and what that has to do with consciousness.

And how with a raised consciousness also comes more freedom and thus, by raising our consciousness and finding more inner peace, we also obliterate the need for violence.

And we look at another essential thing, that will help us be more aware in our community interactions – our role as humans in nature, in this world.

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Community – Week 3 – Pt. 1

Community – Week 3 – Pt. 1

What’s your unique superpower?

We start this lesson with a short review of what we’ve learned in the last few lessons to resolve the most common problems found in communities today.

And then we begin to look at our unique superpowers, so we can become more confident in the way we contribute to any community, group or project we choose to support.

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Community – Week 3 – Pt. 2

Community – Week 3 – Pt. 2

What’s your favourite archetype?

In this lesson, we dive deeper into the roles we can inhabit in a group or community setting.

Are you better fit for a creative role or a leading role, or both, or something else?

Knowing what we are good at, and also thinking about what we would like to learn and grow into, can help us immensely to find our place in any community setting and to be able to contribute in the best possible way.

This is also a great resource if you’d ever like to start your own project or company and can help you make sure all vital roles will be covered so that the project can run in the best possible way.

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Community – Week 3 – Pt. 3

Community – Week 3 – Pt. 3

What’s your (stress) archetype?

Of course, things don’t always go the way we want them too.

Sometimes we get stressed, overwhelmed, take on too much or don’t dare to step into our power.

But we can always change and learn and grow.

Looking at the Occasional Archetypes, like the thief, victim, fool, hero_ine, adventurer and so on can help us to recognize these archetypes in ourselves and others and help us to come back into balance, whenever we slip into them.

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Community – Week 4 – Pt. 1

Community – Week 4 – Pt. 1

Let your heart be your guide

We end this chapter by thinking about forming temporary alliances, to help us come together for causes that affect us all – and how we can do that while also disagreeing on other things.

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Community – Week 4 – Pt. 3

Community – Week 4 – Pt. 3

What would your Qu_ing-Self do?

In our final lesson, we celebrate all we’ve learned in this chapter and see how we can take it even one step further by asking ourselves what our highest self, our qu_ing -self, would do.

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Practice:

PEACEFUL CONFLICT
RESOLUTION

Ritual:

Intention
setting

Recipe:

energy
balls

The Colour for this chapter is: white

The Colour White – Relationships & Conscious Connection

As human beings, we are made to be in relationship with each other, but some of us are more introvert and others more extrovert, some thrive when they have many people around them and others feel like they need to recharge after interacting with others.

Yet, we are meant to connect and to live with and support each other. We simply have to find out how each of us can do this best, and the qualities of the colour white can help us with that.

And so this makes white the ideal colour to support us in the COMMUNITY chapter.

If anyone can learn this, why don’t they?

Because many people don’t believe that they actually have the power to change their lives – even though they do.

This is because they don’t know how to do it, or they’ve tried it in ways that didn’t work for them, as they likely wanted too much too fast – or didn’t dare enough. Maybe this is true for you as well?

There’s also a certain comfort in not taking full responsibility for the situation we’re in, for our lives, by blaming our circumstances, our upbringing or current world events – and believing that it’s not up to us to create the changes and the lives we now secretly dream about.

But if we wish to create changes, and if we’d like to dare to make all our dreams come true – it’s always up to us to start – because only when we start can the grand CREATRIX support us in our efforts and make even the seemingly impossible possible.

Because if we try for something better, we are never alone.

January - Self // Self-Actualize!

If we use our powers for the highest good of all, our efforts are always recognized and supported.

And what’s even better – if we initiate a positive change once, and see and experience with our own bodies, how much, what we think, and say, really matters, and how much more is possible for us, as soon as we start to see things differently – we automatically grow our confidence and realize how much power we really do have, with every new change we create in our lives.

And so, the CREATRIX School invites you, to find out for yourself, that you have the power to change anything you don’t like about your life right now, to something that makes your heart and your soul sing, by giving you the right exercises and guiding you through the process of self-actualization – the process of becoming your true and authentic, magnificent and most joyful, loving, creative and abundant self.

Just ask yourself: Are ready to find out, what else could be possible for you?

Do you feel like it’s time to allow yourself to release what doesn’t serve you any more, explore your hidden and possibly still untapped superpowers, and begin to use them for the highest good of all? Then this is for you.

What I offer here is revolutionary, yet it’s also very practical and down to earth.

And you might or might not be able to figure all of this out by yourself, over the course of your life, but if join the CREATRIX School now, you’ll have the best guidance – from someone who went through all of this herself – and with this support, you will be able to discover your true self in a much shorter time – and you will start to see the benefits of this in your life right away.

I’d love to accompany you through the process of your self-actualization, and I promise you that I’ve made this journey as fun, exciting, surprising and easily successful for you, as possible.

I wrote a lot of what you find in the CREATRIX School while I was going through these changes myself – so you’ll have my first-hand experience – my often catastrophic before, my messy in the middle and my happily ever after – to relate to and to guide you through.

From my experience, I know that to create the changes, we wish for, in our lives, we have to begin by being really honest with ourselves, and allow ourselves to dream big, often bigger than those around us, trust the process and allow ourselves to follow our soul’s calling.

And only as a next step, we can begin to take full responsibility for all our thoughts, words and actions and start to accept where we are now, and then begin to learn how to be really kind and loving to ourselves, so we can change with joy and care.

This way, we allow for the changes to stick, naturally, because they feel good, and so our new habits and ways can support our lives holistically and constantly.

And on top of all the positive change this will create in our lives, this won’t just change our lives for the better, it will also have a positive impact on the lives of all the people and future and past generations our lives have touched, and will touch.

Once we begin to accept ourselves for who we are (wonderful, perfect and special beings with immense power), we can relax, arrive and feel safe.

And when we feel safe enough to be, and know enough, remember enough about our true selves, we can begin to reinvent ourselves, and live as how we truly are, deep down, and not as the version we created to fit in, or please others, or to be safe, or loved, or successful – because that version has never really made us happy, has it?

Then, once we feel safe and confident enough to do so, we can begin to genuinely explore our own and unique ways to be human, to be weird, nerdy, special, grandiose, explorative and incredibly loveable in our perfect imperfection and re-learn, or remember, how to express ourselves, how to laugh, to love, to learn, to open up and to enjoy trying something and failing at it, as much as we enjoy mastering it – in our unique ways and areas of interest.

From here, we can also begin to see how everything in life happens for us, not to us. And that every experience, everything we try and fail at, helps us to learn and grow and be better next time.

Because, as humans, that’s what we are here on earth for: To grow and to learn, and to show and share our unique gifts and beauty, to share the gifts and perspectives we’ve been given, that make us special and unique, so we can contribute to the whole in our own unique ways and for the highest good for all.

We’re not here to make due, to please others or to follow conventions, to fit in, to struggle each and every day, to worry and fear. We’re here to love, learn, explore and expand.

If we begin to recognize our purpose, which is to love and explore, and see our journey through life as a self-actualization journey, which will eventually lead us to becoming our highest, truest, most relaxed, most generous and loving and abundant qu_ing selves, we will see that being on this journey also allows us to open up to and experience joy and love and abundance in our lives a bit more each day.

This allows us to break out of and away from the pressure, and start to be so rooted, grounded, centred in ourselves that we can begin to actually attract and allow for what we wish for.

Anyone can do this, really, and it can even be a lot of fun.

But it may also take some courage, to face your shadows and begin to transform them into light, I’m not going to lie about that. Yet again, the more we do it, the easier it becomes.

And insecurities and questions will come up, and so to do this confidently and continuously until we reach true inner peace might take some practice and encouragement, which can be difficult to bring up on your own.

The reason why most people don’t live as their highest and best selves yet, is that they don’t know how to get there.

They simply don’t know where to begin or what to do exactly, they don’t have the role models who can show them the way, or they don’t have the money to work with a personal coach or teacher on these topics individually. Which is precisely why I founded the CREATRIX School.

With the CREATRIX School, I can guide you through every step you need to take to get to where you want to go and bring clarity, confidence, joy, relaxation, abundance, playfulness and whatever else you wish for into every area of your life – for the price of three take out coffees a month, and without having to hire someone to work with you one-on-one.

Yet, with the same success.

As every good coach or spiritual teacher will tell you, we are here to ask you the right questions, the answers you will always have to find for yourself – because only then will you truly know.

And you do already have all the answers within – they are right there waiting for you to hear them.

You simply haven’t taken the time, or had the right guide, or the confidence, or the role models to know exactly how to ask those questions yet in a way that worked for you, or knew how to listen to your answers and then to actually start living according to your inner truth.

But this can all change right now.

And you still won’t be going through this on your own, as if you join the CREATRIX School, you will also be joining a growing community of people, who want to start creating and shaping their lives actively, who are taking their power back, who are beginning to enjoy life deeply, and who are thriving in their unique ways, using their unique talents, gifts and insights – and with this experience, we can all begin to create more and more communities, offers, programmes and turn this world into a world, in which we are all here to support one another.

Is this the right course for you?

Take a second to imagine what your life would look like if you were at peace with yourself and the world, surrounded by people who genuinely wish to support you, and you would discover that you had the possibility to do or have anything and everything you wished for.

Imagine being able to see yourself as the beautiful and wonderful and talented person you really are, like God /Allah/the Universe/our Creator/the Great Spirit, or, as I like to call them, the grand CREATRIX would see you, and that you would recognize that the future is entirely in your hands.

How would that feel?

There’s nothing holding you back, but the voices in your head, of conditioning, fear and a false sense of protection, which are limiting you and keeping you from going after your true desires and your soul’s calling. Can you begin to understand that your future only depends on what you allow yourself to believe to be possible for you?

If you wish, we can change these voices and limitations together and forever.

In our lives, we all had and will have to go through challenges – those aren’t going to go away, but we can change the way we react to them and see them, as if there were no more challenges or questions or new and scary ideas, our lives would be meaningless and over.

So, what you will learn in the CREATRIX School, is, how to deal with those challenges in the best way possible and how to stop avoiding, ignoring or suppressing them, or complaining about them or being angry about them, but to see them as the opportunities that they are, and you will learn how to alchemize them, and with that, how to allow them to open new doors for you.

Because that is what will move your life from being full of struggles and troubles to being enchanting and joyful.

You will also really begin to see how we are all always doing the best we can at all times. Until we know better, because only then can we do better. With this understanding, you will be able to confidently live, knowing that things will get better with every step, that you will take, from now on.

And you will begin to see that, if we continue to struggle with, and hold on to negative feelings, about our past, ourselves, other people or our present, we give our past the power to negatively impact our present and future as well – and that that is not a given, but that we – you – have the power to not let that happen any more – by reclaiming your power for yourself, and taking it away from those who hurt or harmed you, and by beginning to create your desired future and life, instead of just living the one that is a result of all that has happened in your life, so far.

In the CREATRIX School, I will show you step-by-step how that is possible – for any situation.

And while the results may seem magical, the process isn’t.

We simply have to analyse what we have now, decide what we want instead and then release what is holding us back (our hidden assumptions and subconscious believes – which I will show you how to detect) so we can freely take the steps towards creating what we actually wish to have and experience and not just what we get to experience because of the way we were raised, or what we have experienced, until now – you will learn all the tools and tricks you need to alchemize your life and make anything possible for yourself that you wish for.

This is the process of manifestation, of creating, of becoming a true CREATIRX – and the more we practise, the easier it becomes.

Do you think this way it might actually be possible for you to have more of what you want, of what you dream about or desire to have and less of what you had so far and didn’t like?

If you can answer this question with a yes, even if the yes is still shy, then this is the right course for you.

How can we start building stronger communities post covid?

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You have everything it takes to live the life your soul desires, a life that makes you happy and fulfils you – you have the right to be abundant, loved, adored and free – and it only depends on your choices whether you will actually have that or not.

The more you recognize and live this truth – that you are the only one who can decide what your life will be like, from now on – and start to create the changes you wish for, instead of just hoping that they might one day just magically appear or happen – the more confident you will become in walking your unique path, and the more balanced, joyful, abundant and love filled your life will become – and you can keep it this way, as you now know what you needed to do to get there.

There is nothing special about people who make all their dreams come true – other than that they won’t let others or themselves stop them from going after their dreams.

And there is nothing secret or special about learning how to live a fulfilled, happy and successful life, we each just have to understand the Laws of the Universe and how the world really works, and ask ourselves some questions and find our unique answers to them.

These questions have been asked again and again by wisdom seekers all around the world in all centuries of human history, and are as easy or as difficult as: “Who am I? Why am I here?”

Or: “What do I need to eat to be healthy?”

Or, as we will see in this chapter: “How can I use my thoughts, beliefs and actions to create the community I need to make the changes possible that can be beneficial to all of us?”

And now it’s simply your turn to ask and answer these questions yourself, with my guidance, so you can walk through life having your own answers and with this knowing, build a deep-rooted confidence and the understanding that you belong here and are exactly right as you are.

Once you have answered these questions for yourself and by yourself (though with the guidance, I provide for you in the CREATRIX School), you will find peace and calm and a sense of safety and clarity, that is difficult to imagine possible before you allow yourself to find your own answers.

Other people’s opinions, guidance and wisdom can be great and super helpful, but it will never match your unique situation 100%, and so no guidance will ever be as good as the one you find within. And if you’re insecure about that, especially in the beginning – I’m always here to answer your questions and guide you back to your inner wisdom – because it is all there.

How much my life has changed since I embarked on my own journey to become my true self, first as a CREATRIX and now as a qu_ing, is something I wouldn’t have dared to imagine possible, just a few years ago.

Real freedom, confidence & success are possible – for anyone who dares to look within, to discover themselves and who consciously begins to create their lives – according to their unique needs and using their unique gifts and talents.

“I feel incredible, invincible and unstoppable now. I know that everything I set my mind to, I can make happen, and I’m happy to be where I am now. And this even though I was really insecure, doubtful and unhappy for (almost all of) the first 40 years of my life.

Without that past, however, I wouldn’t be here in this capacity now – I wouldn’t know what and how our perspective needs to change to get from where things seem difficult, if not impossible to change, to knowing how to change things with love, joy and ease.

I now know that when we change the way we see things, when we change our perspective, we change our whole lives. Going through this process, I’ve learned so much, I’ve changed so much, and now I’m especially grateful for the hardships I endured in my past because they are what pushed me towards being here now, and they are what enables me to serve competently, confidently and full-heartedly.

I have no regrets, and I am genuinely grateful that I got to experience deep pain – because I know now how to alchemize it – and that this is where my power comes from.

Because overcoming the struggles of my life allowed me to see that I can free myself from any situation, by changing my mind about it. I got to experience first hand, that with every hurdle and with every challenge, I overcame, new powers emerged and with every dark valley I crossed, the horizon opened up again and showed me previously unknown colours and opportunities.

Today, I truly enjoy every step I take, especially if it’s challenging, because I know it is, and it will continue to be, worth it, and that challenges can even be fun, if we don’t abandon ourselves, and our power, or take them personally.”

And I’d love for you to be able to develop this sense of ease and joy and confidence about everything that happens in your life as well, if that’s what you wish, because we are all here to explore, learn and grow and not to have it all figured out already – and we can learn to embrace every challenge joyfully instead of shying away from it and allowing it to limit us in our lives – and when we do that we can really start to make all our dream come true – in a grounded, joyful and confident way.

So, if you believe new opportunities are waiting here for you, if you’d like to start building a deep-rooted trust in the universe/God/Allah/the grand CREATRIX, yourself and your abilities – then this is the right course for you.

And all you have to do is sign up to get started.

Isn’t it selfish to focus on myself?

January - Self // Self-Actualize!

Especially when there are other people out there who are struggling much more?

If you ask this question, aren’t you struggling yourself?

Don’t you find it difficult to sleep peacefully at night because you worry about your personal situation and/or the state of the world?

The thing is, we can only safely reach out a hand to other people, if we know how to stand strong and confidently ourselves.

It’s the same reason why we are told to put an oxygen mask on ourselves first, before we help others – because if we don’t have air, or energy or love, or food, or hope, or confidence to sustain ourselves, we cannot inspire and support other people – sustainably, over a longer period of time.

Equally, we can only create a better, and more equal world, if we ALL have access to all the resources we need to learn how to live free, happy and abundant lives.

It’s why I will always encourage you to share everything you learn in the CREATRIX School with other people.

Sharing what you’ve learned deepens your knowledge and holds you accountable, and it opens doors for others to see things in a new and more self-empowered way. Because we are all in this together.

The more you know and understand and the more you learn to love yourself, the better – because the more you know and the more love you have, the more knowledge and love you can share.

If we think that we can or need to change the opinions or ways of others to create change, instead of changing ourselves – we enter into a frustrating and often violent game – and, most of the time, cause more damage than good.

If, however, we learn how to live what we preach and can set an example, if we can show other people how it can be done, we can inspire them into change as well, and we are so much more likely to succeed in creating the changes we wish for in this world. It’s what I do now and what you might already be doing in some ways, and what you will be able to do even more effectively, after joining the CREATRIX School.

The undeniable truth is, that to create change on a larger scale, we always have to start with ourselves – we have to be the change we wish to see it in the world.

If we are strong, we can act powerfully, if we know how to be healthy, we can share that knowledge with others, if we love ourselves, we can share and give and receive love unconditionally and help others heal.

By embodying the changes we wish to see, and sharing what we already have and know, and give and recieve freely what we wish to have more of, it can all multiply indefinitely.

So, to create the changes we wish for, we have to start by learning how to meet our own needs first. If we want to help other people, we have to know how to take care of ourselves first – otherwise we will eventually burn out.

Looking at it this way, we can realize that it’s never selfish to learn how to take good care of ourselves – as long as we are willing to share what we learn and experience to inspire more – and don’t just keep it for ourselves.

Everybody can have their dream job, live in their dream home and experience peace and joy – we just don’t all know how yet, and only once you do know, because you made it happen for yourself, you can help other people to have it all as well.

If you don’t know how to be happy and enjoy your life, how will you help others to have or do that?

The reason why we have wars, exploitation, hate, fear, devastation, sickness, is because the people involved in these actions, don’t know how to solve things peacefully – they’ve not yet understood that they are fighting themselves.

They are ruled by their egos.

But we, you and me, have a choice.

We can be like most people, take sides, hate one and love the other – and with that continue to keep up a system that thinks killing, discrimination or exploitation of others can be justified and is what’s right – even though it’s just what creates more karma, that we will then have to work through in other lifetimes – or we can feel helpless in the face of all the devastating things going on in the world, and get so overwhelmed that we ignore it altogether or break down, give up and become depressed.

Or we can choose to strengthen ourselves, to gently overcome our ego and begin to live a life in service for the highest good of all – because we are all one and what’s good for all is also what’s best for us.

When we choose this, we – you too – will discover that we can actually have all that we wish for – love, freedom, material wealth, great health, peace and justice included – and that to keep it, and for it to spread to others as well, all we have to do is to keep enjoying and sharing it.

Which option do you think will bring the best results for you and all those whose lives you touch?

We can each make a start and begin to learn what it takes to live in peace with ourselves so that we can also live peacefully with other people and teach them, show them, inspire them to do the same. Violence and oppression have got us here. Now it’s time for our, for a peaceful revolution – one that you can help lead if you start with yourself.

In the CREATRIX School you have the opportunity to remember your purpose, your calling, to discover your strength, your power, your unique gifts, and once you do, you can share your knowledge and your experiences with confidence so that, over time, if we all do this, all people who are interested and ready, will have access to the knowledge and can learn to live self-actualized, happy, healthy and successful lives.

In the end, it is up to each one of us to decide if it’s time to start living a life in which we can fully become ourselves, develop all our skills and ideas and grow with ease to live a life that matches our desires, no matter what our life has been like until now – and with that contribute to our own well-being and learn how to enjoy this life and also contribute to the well-being of all, or not.

No one will stop you, from becoming your true and best self, but you.

If you let other people and their opinions or judgement hold you back, it will not make you or them any happier or help you or them. But if you want to begin changing your life for the better and inspire others to do the same – because they will see you change and shine and thrive, then you now have the opportunity to join the CREATRIX School, and to bring peace, clarity, confidence, joy and abundance into every area of your life.

And you can easily find out if this is the right thing for you or not, by taking advantage of the free 30-day trial, so there’s no risk in signing up now and giving it a try – but if you do, you may encounter a lifetime of joy, love, happiness, abundance and freedom. 🙂

Is that something that you’d like?

Is now the best time to start?

You will know that now is the right time to start looking for or creating the community you wish for when you feel like you want to step out of your comfort zone and allow for more positive change in your life than you could bring about on your own.

Now is the right time, to open this chapter in the CREATRIX School, and in your life, if you would like to bring clarity, confidence and connection into your life and into a community and feel ready to share what you’ve learned as well as would like to continue to learn from others.

Now is the right time, if you would like to base your life and your interactions on love, on understanding, on forgiveness and be able to deal with whatever comes up feeling empowered and able to handle it, instead of insecure, or intimidated.

To dare to change something in a way much bigger than we’ve dared before might seem scary or challenging.

Yet, I dare you to try, as it is very possible to change things, and it is very freeing to feel empowered in a situation, that you thought you could not change.

Excuses as to why now is not the right time will always come up, but they are just what they are: EXCUSES.

In the end, the sooner you start to create a life according to your soul’s desire and align your body, mind and soul for your highest good and that of all, the sooner you will be able to fully enjoy your life as well.

So, let me give this question back to you:

Is it time for you to live in a way that nourishes you and makes you feel safe, happy, loved and at ease?

Is it time to start creating and experiencing the community and a sense of belonging you so far only wished for or secretly dreamed about?

Then, yes, this is the very best time.

Am I the right guide for you?

Hi, I’m Verena, the founder of the CREATRIX School and the Generous Life Movement and, if you wish, your personal guide on your self-actualization journey.

I’ve raised myself in community.

When I was 13, as was customary to where I grew up, I started taking bible classes, and the priest who taught us saw something special in me and invited me to start leading children’s groups.

I will forever be grateful for that, as it opened the opportunity to learn and experience a lot more than I would have been able to growing up with my friends, my school and my family alone.

Not only did I have responsibility, I also got to meet people from different communities and walks of life when we organized city or countrywide events.

Verena Spilker stands smiling and thinks: Let's make this happen!

This was in Sweden, where I curated part of an exhibition – a community event for sure.

My experiences there, also led me to do a voluntary service year after graduating from High School, working with Roma communities in Ukraine.

I guess I was, what you would call, a natural leader. I was always honest, reliable and straightforward and people trusted me easily – because they could.

I was class representative most of my life and even student school representative for some years and the second I started university, I began to work at a record shop, became a DJ and started hosting a radio show and got involved in the local music community.

But it didn’t stop there.

As I moved to other cities and places, I got involved in political work as well.

We organized queer parties and events, festivals, exhibitions and so much more.

Verena Spilker stands smiling and thinks: Let's make this happen!
Verena Spilker stands smiling and thinks: Let's make this happen!

This is from the first summer school I organized in Ukraine.

We were able to put together incredible events, often with almost no budget.

I also volunteered for and worked in different NGOs in Germany and Ukraine, until I eventually founded my own NGO and ran that for some years.

Later, when I worked as a web designer, I also mostly worked with and for organizations working in the field of anti-discrimination or for other political causes.

Over the years, I got to see a lot of the good, the bad and the ugly.

I saw how people almost lost their lives fighting for the causes they believed in.

I saw fights, struggles, quarrels, pure hate, fear, anger, determination, exhaustion, nervous break-downs, wins and defeats.

And I learned a lot.

I actually changed my profession from being a web designer to becoming who I am today because I saw how much the people fighting to create positive change in the world, did not believe in themselves, or did not know how to take good care of themselves (me included), and therefore were not standing a chance to create change on a level that is and was needed.

After watching this and wondering what to do about it for more than ten years (as a web designer), I finally understood, something that is now one of my essential teachings: That we can only fully be there for others, once we know how to fully be there for ourselves.

So that’s where we will start in this chapter as well.

And if you’d like to learn how to become strong enough to help strengthen any community, then I’d love to take you on this journey with me.

Change isn’t easy, but it’s kind of like ripping off a band-aid.

It’s painful for a second, then it takes some patience and healing, but then you also feel fresh and renewed and like you’d never want to go back.

It does require some allowing and the bravery to do new things and begin to see things differently, but I promise you that you won’t regret it.

I’ve entered on my journey to become who I am now because I just wanted to be a little bit healthier and happier.

And so I began to look for ways to be that, which quickly turned into a couple of years of research and training.

I have an M.A. in cultural anthropology and political sciences, so how people work in this world has always been my main point of interest.

If you’re interested in my formal qualifications, then you can find them on the about page.

But what I found out in the last couple of years of research, and what I didn’t learn at University, is, that with just a few specific changes in the way we think and act, everything in our lives can change for the better – and this is true for anyone who is willing to be honest with themselves and who is not afraid of change.

We can all live abundant, happy and healthy lives – all we have to do for this is to find out how and then practice it – and the how is waiting right here for you in the CREATRIX School.

We all need to learn how to best interact with other people – and seeing the division we are currently facing in society and where we are headed if we continue with things as they are – it will feel so freeing to know how you can actually be able to help, and begin contribute in a way that nourishes you, and doesn’t burn you out.

So, if you are looking to be better resourced, open, receptive and relaxed so that you can become all you can possibly be (and a lot more than you might now allow yourself to be now) and contribute with a full and open heart, then I’d be happy to guide you through this process of self-actualizing, becoming your best self, or your qu_ing self and begin to live the life, you know you are meant to live and open up to live and love fully and freely.

I can’t wait to welcome you to the CREATRIX School and to invite you to our wonderful community of people who dare to be generous, happy and free!

🌈 You have the power to create your reality.

Are you ready to go deep?

The CREATRIX School isn’t for everyone.

But it’s for you if you are ready to go deep and (re)discover all that you’ve been hiding and running away from.

We can all live in Heaven on Earth, but first we have to learn how to forgive and love ourselves and begin to understand that everything in life happens for us, not to us.

We can become the CREATRIXES of our lives, but for that, we have to be honest, clean up our messes, become aware of how much power and influence we have through every thought we think and every word that we say.

If you are willing to take full responsibility for your life, and are ready and brave enough to begin living, acting and speaking as your authentic self, then, this is for you.

You don’t need to bring anything, I’ll guide you towards the questions you can ask yourself to begin to become your own best guide, trust your intuition and allow yourself to be fully YOU – and possibly find love, happiness, freedom, creative expression and all that you’ve been wishing for on the way.

How Does the creatrix school work?

Every course covers a different topic or area of our lives, but is structured similarly:

In the first week, we assess what we have in life right now regarding each topic and begin to think about what we would like to have instead.

In the second week, we turn to our past and clean up, so we can let go of what doesn’t serve us any more, find hidden assumptions that have been blocking us and drop the baggage that has been making our lives difficult and heavy.

In the third week, we focus on what we want to create now and begin to take the steps that will get us where we want to go. That might mean acquiring new skills, reaching out to new people, cleaning up our homes, doing exercises, making art, taking on new practices and so on.

In the last week, we reflect and integrate. Because that is just as important as doing the work if we want to create lasting change.

 

Each week is split up into three separate lessons, which you find on this page.

To read the content takes between 5 and 20 minutes, depending on whether it’s more practical or theoretical.

To follow along 30 minutes will be your minimum weekly time investment.

But just reading the content will only bring you minimum results.

Every lesson comes with exercises and questions for you to work on.

The more time you invest here, the deeper you go, the better your results will be.

Don’t let this time commitment discourage you, though.

This is an investment you make now, which will save you tons of time in the future.

Because if you invest time now, to find clarity about your life and your desires, you will win this time back many times: by not making the same mistakes over and over again, by knowing what to do and how and by simply being good to yourself instead of boycotting what you really want with distractions, avoidance and procrastination.

What else is included?

Each course or chapter comes with a playlist, recipes and rituals, so we can use all our senses to joyfully integrate the topics we are working on.

This also helps to make the changes we create on the inside visible on the outside.

We will also refer to some chapters of my upcoming qu_ing book, which you will get access to through the course content, and in some chapters we will work with the Archetype Oracle Cards Deck I created.

The cards and descriptions we’ll be using will also be made available to print if you join the CREATRIX School.

There is a private Facebook Group you will be invited to join, and I offer bi-weekly Q&As, so you can get all the questions answers that might come up along the way.

In some chapters, we will also look at our individual Wheel of Colours, as it is a super useful tool to bring more clarity into our lives and to find out what we each need in certain situations.

As I make the Wheel of Colours individually for each person, it’s not included in all course packages, but you will get a discount if you join the CREATRIX School. And you can also participate without knowing your Wheel of Colours. It might just be more fun.

Now all that’s left for you to do is to join and see for yourself.