RELATIONSHIPS – Week 2 – Pt. 2

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โ† CHAPTER OVERVIEW

Exploring our desires

 

Dear Creatrix,

How did the exploration of your needs, desires and wishes go?

Did you have a look at your Wheel of Colours and did you answer the questions I gave you in the last lesson?

Iโ€™m going to walk you through my Wheel of Colours today, to show you how to use it to get in touch with your desires and needs when it comes to relationships.

After that, I will also give you my answers to the questions, to inspire you to go deep and really find your own answers.

As I’ve mentioned in the article on How to Manifest YOUR Ideal Relationship, it can be difficult to imagine something or to ask for something, if we’ve not seen it before.

I’ve been doing this kind of self-inquiry for a really long time, yet I can still find it difficult to go to the really juicy parts.

But I also believe that it really helps to do it anyway and that it becomes somewhat second nature over time.

If we wish for something, especially when it comes to relationships and love, we have to be honest and get in touch with our deepest desires as a first step to feeling met and seen.

To get there, today we’ll go deep.

How to use your Wheel of Colours to learn more about your Needs and Desires

As I’ve mentioned in the last lesson, there are certain fields and colours in the Wheel of Colours, which can help us to understand our needs and desires when it comes to romantic relationships, but also relationships and our needs in general.

I’ll use my own wheel as an example here.

The second field

One of these fields is the second field, which shows us what we need to feel supported and to collaborate or be together with other people.

The traditional colour for this field is yellow, the colour of emotions and support, so we will also have a look at that colour later.

My second field has the colour green, which is the colour for thinking, originating, healing and growing.

Iโ€™ll just paste a part of my description here that really resonates:

โ€œIf you are interested in a relationship or project, if you think that someone is a good connection for you, or a project will be beneficial to you, then you are committed to it.

When other people want something from you that you don’t want, you prefer to block it.

A strong will, can often be an advanโ€ฆ

๐ŸŒˆ You have the power to create your reality.

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