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How to be free (with other people)

Dear Creatrix,

Congratulations. This has been quite a month, hasn’t it?

Today we won’t add much else, but we are going to celebrate ourselves, and for that, we will go on a date – with ourselves and, if you like, you can bake some cookies – because they really are good for the heart.

But let’s take one step at a time.

Treat Yourself like Someone You Love

Are you ready to value yourself as much as you value other people? Can you begin to treat yourself like the special, unique and wonderful person you are? Let’s really make things happen today.

How about a dinner or breakfast date – with yourself? Because you are worth it!

Really dive into this idea.

How would you like to be treated?

Try it out. Feel it.

And then start making this your new life.

Once you feel completely confident with yourself and start treating yourself in loving and kind ways, as you’d love to be treated by someone else, add on this.

Start with breakfast and how you’d like to eat it, and be every morning with a partner. And imagine having the partner of your dreams by your side when you do.

– Just watch your thoughts, and catch them whenever they fall to: “Oh, it’s never going to happen.” Live as if they are already there.

Make room for them in your flat, create space for them, expect them to be there any minute.

And what would you do together after work?

And at night.

It’s your life, start to live it, every day.

Don’t wait for anyone.

Start now.