Friendships – Week 1 – Pt. 1

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← CHAPTER OVERVIEW

Welcome to a New Chapter in the CREATRIX School

Dear Creatrix,

I’m very excited that you are here and that we will explore this chapter of the CREATRIX School, together.

In the last moon phase, we talked about self-actualization and how to live a life without regrets. We covered a lot of ground there, organized our days and thought about the things we wish to achieve or experience in this life and did a lot of hard work of facing and overcoming some demons, or bringing light to some of our shadows.

In this chapter, we will be a bit softer as we will think and talk about our friendships and what it means to be a good friend and how to open up to new, deep, lasting and meaningful connections.

We always start slow so that we can take some time to really feel into our ideas about friendships and what we are looking for. We are each on our own journey, and you know best what is going on in your life and what you’d like to change.

So take a moment to feel into that.

Maybe you, like me, went through a spiritual awakening and lost friends because of the changes you’ve been going through. Maybe you never felt like you belonged with the friends you had so far and would like to explore new and different ways of connecting. Perhaps you’ve been bullied or you bullied others and you want a change.

Perhaps you are quite happy with your friends, and would just like to deepen your connection or learn more about how friends can actually help you heal and grow.

Wherever you are at, now is a great time to think about the friendships you have and had in this life and answer these questions:

How do you feel about the friendships in your life?

What do/did you like about them?

In what moments do you feel really seen and connected?

When do you feel held and uplifted by your friends?

Do you ever feel held and uplifted by your frineds? Or is this something that you are missing?

What are the different kinds of friendships you have?

How often do you see your friends?

What do you find easy to share with your friends, and what are things that you might keep from (some of) your friends?

And then also think about what you would like to change here.

When was the last time you were with a friend and felt disappointed?

Or like you couldn’t quite connect to them the way you wanted to?

What else comes up for you when you think about friendships?

Is there anything specific that you would like to think or talk about this month?

If so, please leave a comment below or share it in our Facebook group.

And then, I’ll tell you a bit more about what we are going to do in this chapter.

Friendship as an Antidote

Can we use friendship as an antidote to the problems we see in the world today?

I believe we can, and fortunately, I’m not the only one.

In a world of division, unresolved issues, misunderstandings, cancelling and calling each other out instead of calling each other in – each of us has the opportunity to choose a different path, if we choose to form friendships which can support us in our lives and growth.

Together with people we love and trust, that we welcome into ou…

🌈 You have the power to create your reality.

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Food – Week 1 – Pt. 1

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Welcome to a new chapter in the CREATRIX School

This is going to be exciting! We will look at our food stories, and how care and nourishment and food are connected, we will see what we need to have a healthy diet – and mindset, and how to create a sacred and mindful kitchen.

And, in this lesson, we look at all of these topics a little bit, to become more familiar with these topics and to be able to set our goals for this chapter well.

Creatrix Crew Application Form

Creatrix Crew Application Form

Thank you for your interest in joining a CREATRIX Crew and creating your magical support system for your self-actualization journey, ascension journey, or growth journey.

This is where you can apply to get started. 💖

Ritual: Connecting without Recreational Drugs

Ritual: Connecting without Recreational Drugs

Let’s make new friends – while being sober.

Drinking alcohol seems like such a normal part of the lives of many. Just looking for stock photos of ‘friends’, it’s difficult to find pictures without alcoholic beverages in them.

We get offered free drinks at restaurants, and often people act as if you are insulting them, if you don’t choose to have a drink with them. But we don’t have to be an alcoholic to not want to drink. We may simply wish not to cause unnatural highs and lows, that don’t serve us.

Friendships – Week 1 – Pt. 2

Friendships – Week 1 – Pt. 2

How can we overcome loneliness? 🩷

Let’s explore more of what we are wishing for and see how we can overcome loneliness – individually and collectively.

Because we do all need each other. Friendships can bring us closer to our shadows, and they can help us heal. More friends are not necessarily better than a few good ones – and in the end, it all boils down to what we really wish for.
What’s that for you?

Friendships – Week 1 – Pt. 3

Friendships – Week 1 – Pt. 3

What would an ideal friendship look like for you?

In this lesson, we think about friendships past and present and what makes them great and also what makes us great friends.

It can be quite difficult to be really honest about the things we wish for in life, but we’ll do it anyway, as it is the only way that we can actually have all that we wish for and that our soul desires.

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 1

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 1

How can we be a great friend?

In this lesson, I share a bit about my own story with friendships, and the different stages of letting go of my past.

So see, if you can relate.

And then from there we continue by thinking about what we would like to have in terms of friendship now.

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 2

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 2

What are your friendship roles?

We start this lesson again, by looking back at what has worked for us in the past when making new friends, to see if we can still use some of the same strategies and what we’s like to change when meeting new people now.

And then we also look at the different friendship archetypes to see how to make sure that we are covered in all areas when forming new friendships now.

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 3

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 3

What the Wheel of Colours can tell you about your needs when it comes to friendships

The Wheel of Colours can help us to understand ourselves better, and there are certain colours and fields that can help us with creating conscious friendships.

One of them is the colour white, which tells us in which are of our lives we need to the presence and connection to other people the most.

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 1

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 1

Why does it get easier when we self-actualize together?

All problems in our world can be solved by raising our consciousness.

Because the higher the consciousness, the more we realize we’re all one, and that we all benefit from rising together, from helping each other to thrive as our unique selves.

So, in today’s lesson, we are going to explore this and how we can support each other in practical ways.

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 2

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 2

How can we build conscious friendships?

In the last lesson, we opened up to the idea of creating a support system for ourselves, so we can thrive and grow supported by community.

Today, we will explore our values, to make sure that we will be supported in a way that aligns with our soul, and our unique needs and wishes.

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 3

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 3

How to set our intentions

Let’s look at how to set our intentions for ourselves and to support others with theirs.

Setting intentions and supporting others with theirs is a spiritual practice as well, as it can teach us how not to limit ourselves and others, and it can help us to act in non-judgemental loving and supportive ways.

Friendships – Week 4 – Pt. 1

Friendships – Week 4 – Pt. 1

Friendships – What’s mine? What’s yours?

Today we will have one final look at our friendships and get really clear on what is our responsibility and what isn’t – and when it’s time to be open to change with other people and when it might be wiser to move away from current friendships, relationships or other situations.

Becasue it can be difficult to move from the familiar to the unfamiliar – yet it’s worth it.