Welcome to the CREATRIX School Community Space
for the RELATIONSHIPS Chapter
This is your space to watch additional videos, share reflections, and ask questions about each lesson in the RELATIONSHIPS Chapter.
You find all lessons below. Simply click on the one you have questions about, or wish to see the video for. You find the password to enter each lesson in your course materials.
I’m adding videos for each lesson, but I’m just starting with this, so bare with me while I get to each one.
Your Questions Are Welcome Here
Growing into a more authentic version of yourself is a beautiful journey – and it naturally brings up questions. When that happens, that’s not a sign that something is wrong; it’s a sign that something is shifting.
While all the answers ultimately live within you, having someone who has already walked this path can make a real difference – whether that means pointing you in the right direction, helping you find the courage to trust what you already know, or simply offering a fresh perspective.
That’s why I offer bi-weekly group coaching sessions for those who booked that option – so your questions get answered as they arise. I genuinely look forward to seeing you there.
And in between those sessions? Or if you haven’t booked that option? This is your space. To ask, to share, to connect with each other.
A Little Kindness for the Journey
Becoming a new version of yourself means looking honestly at who you’ve been – and gently letting go of beliefs and patterns that no longer serve you.
That process can bring up grief, resistance, or moments of real discomfort. That’s completely normal, and there’s room for all of it here.
Once we’ve made space by releasing what limits us, something wonderful opens up: a growing trust in your own feelings, instincts, and inner guidance – call it your highest self, your guides, source energy, or simply the universe. From there, life can begin to flow with more ease, joy, love, and abundance.
This community holds space for all of it – the tender parts and the exciting parts alike.
A heart-felt Note
This space is built on curiosity, mutual support, and kindness.
If at any point you feel overwhelmed, helpless, or in need of more immediate support, please reach out to a friend or supportive partner, professional counsellor or therapist – or message Verena directly. You don’t have to navigate anything alone.
The 12 lessons of this chapter
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 1 – Pt. 1
Welcome to a New Chapter in the CREATRIX School
This month we are going deep to discover our wishes and desires when it comes to love and relationships, look at the roles we’ve outgrown and what we need to also get what we wish and desire.
So that from now on, we can give and receive love freely and joyfully in our relationships.
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 1 – Pt. 2
What can we learn from your past relationships?
In this lesson, we have a look at how to cultivate happiness inside of us so that we can find happiness on the outside, and we look at releasing the heaviness we might carry from past relationships.
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 1 – Pt. 3
On Self-Pity, Jealousy and Agency
In this lesson, we look at why it helps to take a step back and distance ourselves from people who face the same problems, why jealousy is never useful and what we can do instead.
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 2 – Pt. 1
What Do You Need and Desire?
In this lesson, we begin to look into our desires. You will receive 13 questions and some other tools to help you get closer to what you wish for and desire.
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 2 – Pt. 2
Exploring Our Desires
In this lesson, I will show you how to use the Wheel of Colours to find out what you need to feel safe, to feel respected and to cooperate with other people. I will also be sharing my answers to the questions from the previous lessons, to guide you to allow yourself to really go deep and be honest.
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 2 – Pt. 3
The Romantic Archetypes
In this lesson, we will have a look at how we can use the romantic archetypes to help us see the roles we might slip into in romantic relationships and look into how we can release them so that we can be our true and authentic selves with others (and therefore also feel seen for who we are and not just for the roles we play).
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 3 – Pt. 1
How to apologize well and with love
This week we are starting to learn some new skills because now that we know more about ourselves, we can also begin to express what we wish for gracefully.
And we start by learning how to apologize well, because if we want to set new boundaries, we’re bound to tap into conflicts, and it’s good to know how to resolve them well as well.
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 3 – Pt. 2
Thoughts on How to Communicate Well
Visualization can help us to get what we’d like to have and go where we’d like to go.
But on our way there, we also have to interact with other people, especially the ones we are or want to be in a relationship with.
Let’s find out how to do that best.
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 3 – Pt. 3
Let the Sparks Fly – Let’s Create some Intimacy
In this lesson, we explore how to create intimacy in our relationships, what we need to feel safe to communicate our desires and create the kind of relationship and intimacy we wish for.
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 4 – Pt. 1
How to Energize Your Relationships
What does it take to energize what we love?
And how can we feel loved, accepted and appreciated?
What might be more difficult for LGBTQI* people? And how can we support and understand each other?
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 4 – Pt. 2
What have we learned?
In this last lesson we make sure that we’ve not forgotten about anything important, get clarity on the difference between our wants and our needs and remember what really is most important when it comes to relationships.
RELATIONSHIPS – Week 4 – Pt. 3
How to be free (with other people)
How would our qu_ing (best) self be in a relationship? How much would she love herself, and how would that show?
What difference would that make?
Let’s find out!
If you haven’t joined yet, here’s your chance:
RELATIONSHIPS chapter
Learn to create the intimacy and relationships you truly long for.
In this chapter (or 4-week course), you’ll explore your desires, your subconscious beliefs when it comes to love, yourself, and what a realtionship looks like, and how to make peace with past relationships and experiences.
You’ll build the self-love, confidence, and communication skills you need to call in — or deepen — the relationships you truly wish to have.
Because the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every love story that follows.
