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Bringing in more love 🩷 🌷

Dear Creatrix,

So, how did it feel to think about something like a couch with so much intention? And how does your home feel now?

Today I’ll make it short and will let you do most of the work, after all, we’re here for your happiness and well-being!

There will be quite a few more questions coming up for you to answer below, but before we get to them, I want to take a moment to talk about consciously intending the best outcome.

When I moved into the lovely old house in the countryside, I had a talk with a friend who was also renovating a house at the time, and they had concerns about the choices they were making.

At this point, I had just fully understood the fact that we are always doing our very best, in every moment, but when I told them, they weren’t convinced, and brought up the choices they were making for their house, as an example.

They said that they don’t choose the best quality materials, or are patient enough to wait for the best possible solution, or the right to crew to help with things, and then later they regret what they did, or are upset about the choices they made, so they told me that they are clearly not doing the best they can.

But I disagreed – because here is where our subconscious plays a trick on us, when we don’t look at our real intentions.

My friend felt alone and overwhelmed with the project of renovating the house, their work and family, they were on a budget, and they just wanted to get things done, and so they chose accordingly.

They didn’t take the time beforehand, like we are doing now, to become aware of their underlaying believes, intentions and how they thought and felt about the home they were building.

They didn’t consciously choose to build the perfect and most love filled home, instead they were unclear about their intentions, afraid of all the responsibilities and their ability to handle everything, and it showed in their choices and later, in their regrets, yet they still did the best they could, given what they believed about themselves and their situation.

And that’s how things often go, right?

We get a new job offer and move to a different city, get the best flat we can find, and make it nice enough for now or forever.

We meet someone, eventually move in together, have a child and then need a bigger place to live or decide we want to raise the child or children somewhere else.

Whatever your story may be, it brought you to where you currently are, and at the time you moved you might not have been super clear about all of your intentions and so you just made things work – the very best way you could.

And that’s fantastic, as it brought you here.

Now, today, you can breathe and think, explore your desires and decide on your priorities, and yes, really feel and explore and narrow in on what you truly desire.

And we will get to all of that even more deeply in the next week, when we think about the next steps, thinking bigger than we ever have before, and when we see what we need to make sure that our future comes into alignment with our highest self and our soul’s wishes.

But we have to take all the necessary steps to get there, so that we don’t end up disappointed that when our dreams come true, they are not actually what we hoped they would be.

So, today, we will learn a little bit more about ourselves, and what really matters to us, to make sure that we have that in our current and future homes.