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Bringing in more love 🩷 🌷
Dear Creatrix,
So, how did it feel to think about something like a couch with so much intention? And how does your home feel now?
Today I’ll make it short and will let you do most of the work, after all, we’re here for your happiness and well-being!
So there are quite a few more questions coming up for you to answer below, but before we get to them, I want to take a moment to talk about intentions.
When I moved into the lovely old house in the countryside, I had a talk with a friend who was also renovating a house at the time, and they had concerns about the choices they were making.
At this point, I had just fully understood the fact that we are always doing our very best, in every moment, but they weren’t convinced, and brought the choices they were making for their house as an example.
They said that they don’t choose the best quality materials, or are patient enough to wait for the best possible solution or the right to crew to help with things, and then later they regret that, or are upset about the choices they make, so they told me that they are clearly not doing the best they can.
And here is where our intentions come in.
Because they were overwhelmed with the project, work and family, they were on a budget, and they just wanted to get things done, and so they chose accordingly.
Their intention wasn’t to build the perfect and most love filled home, they were unclear about their intentions, afraid of all the responsibilities and their ability to handle everything, and it showed in their choices and later, in their regrets, yet they still did the best they could, given what they believed about themselves and their situation.
And that’s how things often go, right?
We get a new job offer and move to a different city, get the best flat we can find, and make it nice enough for now.
We meet someone, eventually move in together, have a child and then need a bigger place to live or decide we want to raise the child or children somewhere else.
Whatever your story made be, it brought you to where you currently are, and at the time you moved you might not have been super clear about all of your intentions and so you just made things work – the very best way you can.
And that’s fantastic, as it brought you here.
Now you can breathe and think, explore your desires and decide on your priorities, and yes, really feel and explore and narrow in on what you truly desire.
And we will get to all of that more even more deeply in the next week, when we think about the next steps, thinking bigger than we ever have before, and make sure that our future comes into alignment with our highest self and our soul’s wishes.
But we have to take all the necessary steps to get there, so that we don’t end up disappointed that when our dreams come true they are not actually what we hoped they would be.
So, today, we will learn a little bit more about ourselves, what matters to us, so that we can make sure that we have that in our current and future homes.
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Exercise:
Here are some questions for you:
► Do you have a style? And if so, or if…