Friendships – Week 1 – Pt. 2

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How can we overcome loneliness? 🩷

Dear Creatrix,

What did you learn about yourself by answering the questions in the last lesson?

And have you ever wondered why it is, that it seems easier for some to make friends and connect and more difficult for others?

I believe that this is so, because we each have a unique essence, a distribution of qualities, ways to connect and explore and our own ways to contribute to this world.

It’s so easy to see others succeed and think and feel like it was easy for them, but it’s hard for us – in whichever area of our lives.

And even if this it is easier for some, there is a reason why, and getting upset or feeling disappointed about that won’t change anything for the better.

What will allow us to have new experiences and change old patterns, though, is to get to know ourselves and to learn to do things in our unique ways.

And there’s no better tool to help with that than the Wheel of Colours.

Because it shows us that while some of us may magically attract people into their lives, they might also not always be the right people who actually have the capacity to fully support us, while others might be able to form few but intimate and lasting friendships.

Some of us thrive when they have many people around them, others feel exhausted when they have too many people around them for a longer period of time and need to go back into solitude to recharge.

Wherever we land on this spectrum, it will benefit our lives immensely if we learn how to form lasting friendships, which uplift and inspire us, because exchange, support and community is what will always sustain us. And because we are just different expressions of the same core anyway.

So, I think we can agree that it is important and joyful to have and create a supportive network, and to learn how we can feel valued, seen and heard, when surrounding ourselves with other people.

And we can also just have a lot of fun with our friends, spend time together, sing, dance, create or get inspired by each other.

How we do that and how frequently we do this is up to us and our individual needs and wishes – which we will begin to acknowledge and honour this month.

And remember, it is never too late to start creating the changes we seek in life.

I always think of my neighbour, when I was growing up, who fell in love again in her 80s, more than ten years after her husband had died, and moved in with her new boyfriend a few months later, and stayed with him until he died, while she lived on until she was 103.

It really was the cutest and most inspiring thing to see.

When we look at current studies, more people feel lonely than ever. And not just elderly people. People of all ages feel lonely; single mothers, people who weren’t able to maintain healthy and uplifting relationships with their families, people who moved for work – so many people experience loneliness and disconnection.

And this is because we’ve been valuing individualism and financial success and careers over communities and friendships.

But times are changing and so are we. We can learn to create the bonds we wish for by taking just a few steps and beginning to feel safe to open up about our experiences with others.

And we will see how to do that in the next few weeks in the CREATRIX School.

Let’s create meaningful friendships with ease

Take a second to imagine what your life will look like once you have your CREATRIX Crew, a group of people you trust, who support you, who cheer you on when you win, listen to you when you need to be heard and help you get back on track when you struggle. How does that feel?

Now imagine that you would also have all the steps laid out for you and tools presented to you to get there in a predictable period of time. You might even be able to find the right people for your crew in the CREATRIX School.

And all you have to do is take the steps, open up and allow for the changes you seek, and then simply watch as things unfold in the best possible way for you.

Wouldn’t that be nice? Then let’s get started. 🙂

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Drinking alcohol seems like such a normal part of the lives of many. Just looking for stock photos of ‘friends’, it’s difficult to find pictures without alcoholic beverages in them.

We get offered free drinks at restaurants, and often people act as if you are insulting them, if you don’t choose to have a drink with them. But we don’t have to be an alcoholic to not want to drink. We may simply wish not to cause unnatural highs and lows, that don’t serve us.

Friendships – Week 1 – Pt. 1

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Welcome to a New Chapter in the CREATRIX School

In this chapter, we are going to focus on the friendships in our lives and how we can make new friends, in any phase of our lives, and how we can grow and also heal with with our friends.

And we will start this chapter by asking ourselves some questions to find out where we are and where we would like to go in terms of friendships and true connection.

Friendships – Week 1 – Pt. 3

Friendships – Week 1 – Pt. 3

What would an ideal friendship look like for you?

In this lesson, we think about friendships past and present and what makes them great and also what makes us great friends.

It can be quite difficult to be really honest about the things we wish for in life, but we’ll do it anyway, as it is the only way that we can actually have all that we wish for and that our soul desires.

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 1

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 1

How can we be a great friend?

In this lesson, I share a bit about my own story with friendships, and the different stages of letting go of my past.

So see, if you can relate.

And then from there we continue by thinking about what we would like to have in terms of friendship now.

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 2

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 2

What are your friendship roles?

We start this lesson again, by looking back at what has worked for us in the past when making new friends, to see if we can still use some of the same strategies and what we’s like to change when meeting new people now.

And then we also look at the different friendship archetypes to see how to make sure that we are covered in all areas when forming new friendships now.

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 3

Friendships – Week 2 – Pt. 3

What the Wheel of Colours can tell you about your needs when it comes to friendships

The Wheel of Colours can help us to understand ourselves better, and there are certain colours and fields that can help us with creating conscious friendships.

One of them is the colour white, which tells us in which are of our lives we need to the presence and connection to other people the most.

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 1

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 1

Why does it get easier when we self-actualize together?

All problems in our world can be solved by raising our consciousness.

Because the higher the consciousness, the more we realize we’re all one, and that we all benefit from rising together, from helping each other to thrive as our unique selves.

So, in today’s lesson, we are going to explore this and how we can support each other in practical ways.

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 2

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 2

How can we build conscious friendships?

In the last lesson, we opened up to the idea of creating a support system for ourselves, so we can thrive and grow supported by community.

Today, we will explore our values, to make sure that we will be supported in a way that aligns with our soul, and our unique needs and wishes.

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 3

Friendships – Week 3 – Pt. 3

How to set our intentions

Let’s look at how to set our intentions for ourselves and to support others with theirs.

Setting intentions and supporting others with theirs is a spiritual practice as well, as it can teach us how not to limit ourselves and others, and it can help us to act in non-judgemental loving and supportive ways.

Friendships – Week 4 – Pt. 1

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Friendships – What’s mine? What’s yours?

Today we will have one final look at our friendships and get really clear on what is our responsibility and what isn’t – and when it’s time to be open to change with other people and when it might be wiser to move away from current friendships, relationships or other situations.

Becasue it can be difficult to move from the familiar to the unfamiliar – yet it’s worth it.